MIL ...how to deal in a civil way?

From all ur questions u say ur unhappy n people answer them but it's all the same stuff. If life is that bad there n ur husband is as spinless as u make him to be then take ur kids n leave. Ul have ur own place ur rules n no backstabbing. Ur mil won't miss u from wat u say n u may be happy. Sorry to be so blunt but u no wat needs to be done but u put up with the crap. If ur not happy how do u think ur children will feel??